Woman - Her Sex and Love Life

Why Sex Knowledge is of Paramount Importance to Girls and Women-Reasons Why a Misstep in a Girl Has More Serious Consequences than a Misstep in a Boy-The Place Love Occupies in Woman's Life-Woman's Physical Disabilities.

All are agreed-I mean all who are capable of thinking and have given the subject some thought-that for the welfare of the race and for his own physical and mental welfare it is important that the boy be given some sex instruction. All are not agreed as to the character of the instruction, its extent, the age at which it should be begun and as to who the teacher should be-the father, the family physician, the school teacher or a specially prepared book-but as to the necessity of sex knowledge for the boy there is now substantial agreement-among the conservatives as well as among the radicals.

No such agreement exists concerning sex knowledge for the girl. Many still are the men and women-and not among the conservatives only-who are strongly opposed to girls receiving any instruction in sex matters. Some say that such instruction-except a few hygienic rules about menstruation-is unnecessary, because the sex instinct awakens in girls comparatively late, and it is time enough for them to learn about such matters after they are married. Others fear that sex knowledge would destroy the mystery and romance of sex, and would rob our maidens of their greatest charms-modesty and innocence. Still others fear that sex instruction would tend to awaken the sex instinct in our girls prematurely; would direct their thoughts to matters about which they would not think otherwise; and they argue that the warnings about venereal disease, prostitution, etc., which are an integral part of sex instruction, tend to create a cynical, inimical attitude towards the male sex, which may even result in hypochondriac ideas and antagonism to marriage.

I do not deny that there is a grain of truth in all the above objections. Sex instruction does cause some girls to think of sex matters earlier than they otherwise would, and some girls have been made bitter and hypochondriac, and disgusted with the male sex. But it would not be difficult to demonstrate that it was not sex instruction per se that was responsible for these deplorable results; it was the wrong kind of instruction that was to blame-it was the wrong emphasis, the lurid exaggerations that caused the mischief, and not the truth. In other words, it is not sex information, it is sex misinformation, that is pernicious. And, of course, to this everybody will agree: rather than false information, better no information at all.